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Greeting
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In Korea, bowing is a normal form
of greeting, particularly when meeting those who
are senior to you, either in age or in a given social
or work-related hierarchy. In addition, it is a
customary Confucian tradition to perform the jeol,
a deep bow on bent knees, chest touching the floor
and the arms stretched forward to show respect to
parents or older relatives on special holidays.
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Body
Contact |
Unlike in English-speaking communities,
in Korea it is perfectly acceptable for members
of the same sex (not homosexual) to place an arm
around another's shoulder or to hold hands. Such
gestures are considered merely acts of close friendship.
On the contrary, it is deemed bad manners, even
offensive, for those of different sexes to express
affection in public.
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At
Home in Korea |
Koreans traditionally live in homes with heated
floors, and it is normal not to wear shoes inside.
Even those who use beds instead of sleeping on the
"ondol" floor never go to bed with shoes
on. Because of this, it is bad manners to visit
someone's home barefoot, as is the case in English-speaking
countries.
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Table
Manners and Other Forms of Etiquette |
The basic Korean meal consists of bap, or boiled
rice; either guk or tang (soup); kimchi; and other
side dishes. While the main dish is bap, other
dishes made of flour such as bread and noodles
can also be eaten in its place. Although Koreans
have developed a large number of side dishes,
kimchi is the most popular and the most indispensable
of all. In other words, kimchi and Koreans are
inseparable. Members of some households eat bread,
milk, and eggs for breakfast, as Westerners do,
while others eat porridge or drink health beverages.
However, there are a large number of families
who continue to eat a traditional meal of rice,
soup and side dishes for breakfast, just as they
do for lunch and supper. It is just as impolite
to blow your nose at the table as it is to belch.
Yet another sign of bad manners is holding the
rice bowl in your hand. The arrangement of bowls
and silverware is crucial at the Korean table.
The rice bowl and the soup bowl should be arranged
side-by-side, rice on the left and the soup on
the right. The spoon should always be placed to
the left of the chopsticks; otherwise the rrangement
in dicates a ritual meal for the dead. Also it
is inappropriate to leave either the spoon or
chopsticks stuck in the steamed rice, as it indicates
a ritual for the dead as well.
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Drinking
Etiquette |
Koreans offer glasses of liquor
to each other rather than pouring their own. When
someone offers you an empty liquor glass, you are
expected to hold it out and receive a fill-up, drink
it empty, and in likewise fashion return into to
the person who offered it to you. This drinking
tradition helps promote close ties around a drinking
table.
It is a rule of courtesy for juniors to pour liquor
for their seniors. The juniors have to keep paying
attention not to leave a senior's glass empty. When
a senior offers a junior a glass, the junior should
receive it with two hands and drink with head turned
aside, not facing the senior. It is also the custom
to cup the right
sleeve with the left hand when pouring drink for
a senior.
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Bathing
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Most Korean houses have shower facilities,
and there are public bath facilities in every neighborhood.
It is quite common for Koreans to bathe together
and scrub each others' backs. The public bath has
separate sections for women and men, and some places
run family bath facilities. Most public baths are
equipped with saunas, and some have fitness or Jjim-jil-bang
or steam room facilities as well.
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Clothing
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Traditional Korean clothing is the hanbok, worn
today either on holidays or for special occasions.
As young Koreans in particular are very fashion-conscious,
fashion trends come and go, even changing from season
to season.
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Social
Taboos |
Because Korea, like other Asian countries, was partly
affected by Chinese culture, the number '4,' which
has the same sound as the Chinese letter signifying
'death,' is considered bad luck. Consequently, most
buildings, including hospitals and hotels, do not
have a fourth floor. Moreover, most Koreans avoid
writing people's names with red pens. However, it
is acceptable when correcting answer sheets for
tests. .
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